SS10 came for his Thanksgiving visit and we were told by BM that he ay have to stay with us for a while because she was moving. A few days later she shows up with  3 trashbags full of his clothes and his school laptop saying that he is in virtual school until January 15 and that after that we might have to enroll him in our district school. Fastforward 5 months SS has been in in virtual school in our district since January. BM has only seen him 3 times since then, we found out this weekend that she is living at a hotel that is known as a hooker/drug hotel.

What is a good time to start teaching a child responsibility? I think the sooner the better.

My SS is on vidtual learning and has been given a Chromebook by his school, he broke the charger that it came with so it takes longer to charge it on a regular charger. That being said shouldn't it be HIS responsibility to plug t in when he is done class so it has enough time to charge fully? 

SS10 has been with us since Wednesday. BM told DH that he had remote learning from 12/1 -12/14 and that he would have to stay with us during that time becasue her BF had sold their house and they had to be out on 11/30. Knowing that SS had remote learning she didn't bother to pack his school laptop. Called on 11/29 to tell DH that she wasn't sure where they were moving to, She is on probation so technically can't leave her county, she also stated that she was thinkiing of taking SS out of the school he was in so that we could enroll him into a school by us. 

So on Sunday DH has to take SS10 to get sneakers I stayed home and let them have father and son time alone. They were gone about an hour and a half and I just relaxed.