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SUCH a mean SM/BM

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Ss13 and bs16 went for a sleepover to ss13 friends house. I found out today that their "sleepover" really consisted if "up until 5am" if there was any sleep at all.

School starts in a week. That was a poor decision on the part of "my" kids (can't speak for the friend). I catch bs sleeping - I wake his ass up. I just caught ss sleeping (dh is at a meeting) after I already told him not late afternoon naps - made his ass get up too. Their schedules are already messed up.

All she wants to do is dance!

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More of a concept than anything. All BM wants to do is the dance of engagement with DH. It's taken years but he finally sees it.

He sent her three messages on three topics and the only one she responded to was to blame blame blame him. The ones about the kids, silence. The one about her blaming him for not attending an appt, which he responded with neutrality (defending himself not blaming her), she responded with more blame.

Seriously - WHO cares if he fails??

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BM is pushing for SK13 to participate in Football. Hes never participated before.

Last year, in MAY, she made all sorts of noise that he wasn't doing well in school and needed to be enrolled in "special school tutoring". (its been proven hes not doing well because hes not completing assignments from home...)

Let me add to this by saying - we live 3 hours away - we see SKs 2 weekends/month - AKA ALL of their schooling is on HER TIME.

My Crazy Life

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Perhaps this Blog in just a way and place to vent my frustrations. I often feel I wear out my welcome with others, including SM's as most *I* know dont deal with the same kind of BS that I have/Do. Eventually people seem to stop responding to my posts, or offering enlightened ideas or even just a hug. I want to be heard, maybe not my problems solved, but my voive heard that things are ridiculous, unfair, unhealthy etc.

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