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SD5...a little...slow?

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Submitted by quippers01 on Sat, 08/28/2010 - 12:56am

I'm wondering if SD5 may be a little on the slow side...or possibly mildly FAS...or SOMETHING. She seems very awkward in her undersatnding of things, slow to make connections. Besides her neediness, lack of boundaries, quick temper with BD4, over dependence on H (and adults in general), how she makes dramatic faces when she talks, uses odd voices often, and whining, there is something off about her that I can't quite put my finger on.

My ultimate fantsy...

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Submitted by quippers01 on Wed, 08/25/2010 - 11:27pm

I tend to daydream a lot and will make up some quite elaborate scenerios in my head that are often more entertaining than most T.V. shows...to me anyway Smile The good ones can be very relaxing... Before anyone freaks out on me THIS IS JUST A NICE LITTLE FANTASY, NOT SOMETHING I ACTUALLY PLAN TO DO

Another day in paradise!

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Submitted by quippers01 on Wed, 08/25/2010 - 4:46am

SD's first full day visit was an emotional roller coaster for me. H can't understand why this is all so hard for me. I don't blame him for that, I can barely comprehend it myself. He tried so hard to just do what he does and let me move at my own pace (snail). I know he's trying but they way he does it put a ton more pressure on me.

The hits just keep on coming...

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Submitted by quippers01 on Tue, 08/24/2010 - 12:36am

While H went to pick up SD for her weeklong visit I went to my parents to kill some time. The plan was to stay there until H had to leave for work at which point SD would be in bed and H would be out the door so I'd have a mostly relaxed night before the week really got rolling. I was at my parent's for about a half hour when I got a call from H telling me he had gotten into an accident right after he had picked up SD. Thankfully no one was hurt but the car wasn't drivable so I had to go pick them up.

Part 2...Things start looking up

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Submitted by quippers01 on Sun, 08/15/2010 - 1:19am

So, after a year long nightmare of battling the crazy, bitter BM she finally gets it. H finally stands up to her and stands his ground and she realizes that she no longer has control over him. After a few tries I believe it was her bruised ego more than anything that made her back off. She was asserting her importance in his life and he was rejecting it. Instead of continuing to be rejected she chose to be civil because it avoided the rejection. She couldn't control him but she could control putting herself out there to be rejected.

Part 1...From the start

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Submitted by quippers01 on Sat, 08/14/2010 - 3:49am

H and I did not get together under the best of circumstances. We had known each other in high school and were in touch off and on after. We were both seperating and divorcing when we got together this last time and for the first time, as more than friends. I do not love often or easily but when I do it is completely. We spent a weekend together and fell head over heels in love. I was much further along in the divorce process than he since my ex and I had emotionally/physically seperated years before we seperated our homes.

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