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My mistake

So after a few weeks of leaving back in my apartment I was trying to give the boyfriend and skids the benefit of the doubt. I was trying to ignore the BM drama, and focus on working on my relationship with the BF. His mom visited last week. She's been very supportive in all of the BM drama and even the issues I've been having with her own son (my bf). Well after a slip disc and being in pain my children went to bfs house so he could help me and my boys. This morning I wake up to my sons head buzzed.

Was Wondering

So I'm wondering how many of you have also had CPS called on you, DH, and or bio children from the Stepkids BM? SK's BM made false allegations against my children with the caseworker telling me on Friday she didn't find anything concerning from what any of the kids said (skids included) Until I get the letter stating the "investigation" is over and nothing was found I will still be a ball of nerves.

We left

So I removed myself and my boys from my boyfriends house. BF is being childish and angry about it. Everyone I speak to agrees that I did the right thing. Until he can legally stop BM from making false allegations against us I will not move forward in our relationship. I wonder if I even want to move forward since he seems like he cares more about himself than me. Think it's best to let this be someone else's hell.

False allegations

So as of one week ago my boyfriends ex wife put a claim into DSS stating that their father, and my two sons were abusing her children. A caseworker came by questioned my children and me. She's claiming there's physical and sexual abuse. The caseworker told me after interviewing my children and my boyfriends children's that there was nothing concerning going on that she was told by the kids. He is going to the lawyer on Monday to see what he can do regarding stopping her from making anymore false allegations, defamation, etc. What would you do if in my situation?

Is it worth it?

I have 2 boys 10 and 9. My boyfriend has a girl 7 and a boy 5. My boys are laid back and quiet most of the time. His two kids are very overbearing, constantly fight, and even simple tasks like walking the dog becomes an argument because one wants to hold the leash for this amount of time and the other wants to hold it the whole time. Even if I clean the windows the daughter will ask if she can help I say yes then his son comes over complaining cause he isn't cleaning windows!? My boys dislike them and don't want them around.

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