Sd8 has moved up a class in swimming so now needs to go twice a week. The other night is a night when SO never has her. It was decided the best thing to do was to get the teacher to email BM. Wow she actually did something for her daughter and took her!! Just when i think she is actually going to start putting her children first, there is a hidden agenda!
She txt Sd15 to find out what time she would get to swim, which slightly annoys me, as she communicates with her to find out what goes on in the house.

What is it with these women??
Messing with kids heads. Do they not realise the damage they do??
I have had a very good relationship with ysd now 8. I ve known her since she was 2.5yo.
We have had issues before when BM has told her she is not allowed to be in the same room, touch me or hug me and not allowed in the bedroom. Thought we had sorted all that. Coming into the bedroom was dealt with in the fact if door is shut she must knock and wait but she was always welcome to come in for a morning cuddle with daddy as long as she knocked first. This worked fine.

Went to visit SO parents briefly yesterday. Took the 2 youngest skids who were going to stay the night. Over coffee general chitchat. SO brings up 'the ex Mrs' (ive never heard him call her that before) to his mum and complains that she is on holiday yet again. His mum says to the skids and SO its about time you all communicated with each other and why dont you know where she has gone?

She graduates this June and has 2 tickets.
obviously she has asked her dad and i never expected to go as we dont get on. I have no issue with that at all. At present she lives with her paternal grandparents-her choice . I thought she would ask one of them to attend.
No she asked her mother.
Now i understand that this is her day amd they are her parent. Yet the whole time she has been at Uni she has had no help from her BM at all, and she rarely sees her unless its birthdays or xmas. They dont text or phone generally zero contact.