I had a Mothers Day get together yesterday with my daughter and her husband and my Mom and Dad. My DH and our two sons. My DH sat across the table from my daughter he did not even acknowledege that she was there. The same with my son-in-law. I confronted my DH about it when we got home he did not have any valid reason for his poor behavior. But he has told me in the past that he does not like our daughters husband. So, for some twisted reason it gives him permission to be a complete snob when he is around them. I have always had a really hard time with the way my husband acts towards them.

I have been married for almost 23 years. My husband has some serious back problems. He has limited mobility. He is constantly in alot of pain. We have a 17 year old son who is willing to help his Dad when he needs help. And I also try to help my husband out as well. But for years now my husband will say things in an impolite manner whenever one of us does not do what he asks right when he asks us to do it. It has made it to where I do not want to spend time with him nor does my son. I have talked about his behavior to him