Like most I'm here because I'm frustrated and don't know where to turn. My insurance won't cover this type of counseling - believe me I'd be there if it did!! SO has a 17 year-old granddaughter. I've known her all of her life and we had a quite good relationship (I never tried to be "Grandma") until she hit her early teens. From then on it was total scorn and lies. Her mother (SD) has never cared for me (partly jealousy??), and is willing to believe the worst, though she knows GD is a liar.