I have 2 step daughters ages 7 & 5. I have been married to their dad for 2 years now and I am currently expecting a child. The relationship between my step-daughters and I has gotten better but my ill feelings for them have not. I don't like feeling this way and the fact that anythign triggers it. I don't khate them all the time, it's just when there are situations where my husband will pick them over me. Petty things like... not walking with me on the track because the track wasn't around the play structure where his girls were at.