I will marry next spring. He has 2 kids, I have none. I've worked FOREVER, have a bit of money and assets, have never asked for a thing from anyone, and he would like for all of his kids' expenses (child support, medical, dental, air tickets, COLLEGE) to come out of a joint account in which we both deposit everything. I don't think his choice to have kids should be my financial obligation. The children live in another state, I barely know them...they seem great and this is nothing personal, but I want to travel, do the things I want to do.....not pay for someone else's kid's braces!!!!!