My stepson is fat. By fat I mean, very overweight by British health standards.

Do you think it’s worth while discussing the situation directly with SS10 or would this just be harmful if changes aren’t made at his Mum’s house too?

Should my partner bite the bullet and addressed the elephant in the room with BM? (Side note BM and her partner are both obese, my partner bares a resemblance to an actual rake, and I am slightly overweight myself.)