Okay so I know I have no right to even be on this...I've read blogs and I'm not going through anything of which you speak of...but I do have a to vent about the same touchy subject simply because of the fact that it affects my relationship and future with my husband. We've been married for 2yrs and he has a 3yr old daughter that I've never met. Before we we're married he had a child that he didn't know about till a year after she was born...it took 3 DNA test for his whore ass BM to figure out it was his. We were married already when he found out and the news almost made me vomit.