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Success!!

I am freezing eggs and moving on! I told DH that I want to leave. I am tired of this household, and tired of not having a partner. DH is dedicated to having a life of no accountability for himself or his kids, while I break my back to keep the dysfunction functional. Nope! I'm out.

I’m Baaaack (VENTING)

Hello everyone! It's been a while. I am currently planning to leave, but it doesn't mean that things aren't annoying me on the way out.

SD woke up and asked everyone if we wanted to go to Universal Studios. Meaning, "I want to go to Universal Studios, please take me and buy me an Express Pass and a bunch of junk." As if she is paying for this trip, and as if she is the only person in the household.

...and of course, DH, who has GPS from being away this week, is happy to oblige. DH then asks me if I want to go, like I'm another child in the household.

T-giving

So, I made three pies, and a whole delicious thanksgiving feast (because I'm a boss). SD15 proceeds to pick the crusts off of all of the pies. So I sat down and said, "who did this?" DH says, "is it that big of a deal?" I said, "yes, as a matter of fact, it is, who did it?" Of course SD15 denies doing it. So I said, "oh, guess it was the dogs...these aren't fit for human consumption. I threw away the pies and will never make another one while I'm living in this shithole.

Love,

"Towanda"

A$$hole

So tonight, my husband went and got something to eat for himself and the kids from a fast food restaurant. As he was eating his food, they all asked him if they could eat his side item. Usually he lets them. Tonight he didn't, and made it a point to tell them "no".
When we are about to go to bed a few hours later, I realize he left some of his food trash on the counter and there is like 2 bites left of his side item, so I go to throw it away with the rest of the food trash. He tells, "don't throw that away!" So I put it in the fridge.

Update on Regression

UPDATE: Tonight we went to the marriage counselor and she basically made me feel like I was totally off base for wanting my husband to let me know where he was going and what time he'd be back. She said that it was controlling behavior. It just made me super pissed off. Then that gives my husband extra ammunition to call me crazy and an asshole (which he did).

I think I need a divorce.

Regression (UPDATE)

So, I thought that DH and I were making progress. But I feel like as soon as I let up, things just go back to where they were before. So it's like I have to have endless energy to call DH on his BS.

Milestones!

So, this may just belong on a "wife talk" blog. But I am so annoyed, so I'm venting here. After spending my 40th birthday out in the cold in the middle of a football field because my husband planned absolutely nothing to celebrate, and because he couldn't tell "mini wife" "no" (she had a school orientation event-for a school she didn't end up attending), my husband is trying to guilt me into attending his cousin's 50th birthday celebration with "it's her 50th birthday!!!!". Just tired of everyone in my husband's life being more of a priority than me.

Graduation

So I was just told that I would not be invited to Skid's "graduation" ceremony bc she doesn't want "drama and awkwardness" with BM. Ummmm so, since when do kids make the rules about what family events I can and can't participate in?

And of course DH is on board with it.

Tired

Does anyone else get to the point where they are just TIRED. We are in marriage counseling right now and it's exhausting for me. There are just so many issues and we only discuss like 1% of them in our sessions. One of the reasons for that is that there are new issues every day because DH still has no boundaries for his kids.

Connections

I find it crazy that DH can't see the connection between him never requiring the Skids to do what he asks them to do, and the numerous missing assignments they have in school.

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