so its saturday, usually my only day off, but its our weekend with ss, so while fh is at work im watching ss4. Usually he is really good for me, but the last two times have been horrible thanks to bm and my mil. they are a true case of pas, from what ive ben reading. Last time ss informed me that he didnt want to go to my moms house because mil told him she was bad, now today he has said that if i dont do what he wants he will go live with his mom...and other crappy comments that are obviously coming from bm and mil.

well yesterday she asked, but today she just showed up!

our schedule is this
our week: monday, tuesday, friday, sat, sun with us and wed, and thurs with bm

the next week it switches, so basically the longest they go is 3 days with out seeing ss. we tried doing a week with each and he turned for the worse, too long from each parent.

anyways, who ever he is not with talks to him in the morning and at night. to me this seems to be too much. bm also calls whenever she feels like it to discuss ss, rather than waiting until the night or morning when they talk to ss.

sooo, i get home and fh is on the phone with the ex. on speaker as usual so i can hear. She calls in tears, and of course fh thinks something is wrong with ss, so he asks, wtf is wrong? She says, oh nothing ss is fine, hes swimming at the kids down the street (btw, hes 3 almost 4, why is she not with him?) anyways, she goes on to say that things are really bad between her and bf, and its been a rough couple weeks. so fh, giggles and says, well ya know theres not much i can do about that, have ss call me when he gets back. she was silent and then says okay, bye.