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why did you marry dh?

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Submitted by smnikki on Wed, 06/10/2009 - 9:10pm

im curious to know if looking back you feel that the major reason you married dh was to not let bm win? Did you feel like she created all the drama and what not to end your relstionship, and you just couldnt walk away because then she wins, and you walk away from some one that you love?

if you did, do you think now that win or lose, you should have left it all, and not kept dealing with it? letting her win and walking away from the constant termoil would have been the better choice?

ugh....the stress is driving me nuts!--long

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Submitted by smnikki on Tue, 06/09/2009 - 4:21pm

ok, so wedding is in 1.5 months, mil still not coming. sil's not coming to my shower this weekend, but talked to sil last night she said she was in an accident and cant make it, so i feel better that at least one person from his family loves me.

Last night was the first day of tball. we get to the field at 615, it started at 6. bm had taken ss, even though it was our night, because it is HER SON, i already posted on this matter.

ot-since it was popular...surgery advice

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Submitted by smnikki on Sun, 06/07/2009 - 1:10pm

I dont know your situation, but the best recovery imo is if you follow these steps if possible!

take bread and something to drink with you to surgery. when you get put to sleep, you are not able to eat anything the night before, therefore when you wake up from surgery, you can not take pain meds on an empty stomach. once the pain sets in, its hard to get rid of it. So you wake up, youre like wtf did i do this hurts...the person taking you home shoves some bread and sprite in you and then some pain meds, and off to wonderland you go.

Having kids with fh...

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Submitted by smnikki on Sat, 06/06/2009 - 5:43pm

So we arent married yet...but we plan on starting a family shortly after we get married.

Before ss4 always said that he was sooooo excited to be a big brother, and now thanks to pos bm, he is saying that he does not want us to have a baby. He scratched my stomach the other night and when i said dont that hurts (he was tickling me at first) he said, im gonna take the baby out. I said, theres no baby in there, not till me and daddy are married. The he said very clearly that he didnt want any brothers or sisters.

what do you think? Bm's and SM's

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Submitted by smnikki on Fri, 06/05/2009 - 2:30pm

For the last two months, we have known that next week ss starts tball, mon and wed nights for 6 weeks. When we first signed him up, bm had a job and asked if i could take him on mon and fh could take him wed, when she has him because she works till the time he is supposed to be there. At that time things were pleasant, so i said okay.

ot-but funny

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Submitted by smnikki on Thu, 05/28/2009 - 5:49pm

so everyday i check my gift registry to see if we have gotten anything new! I love it, my family is so great and we have been getting great stuff! I love rachel ray, and registered for a bunch of her stuff! we already got her whole cookware line!!

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