When I met my husband I knew he had kids because it's one of the first things he told me. I had always told myself I would never date anyone with kids because I didn't want to deal with the typical "Baby Mama" drama,but as time went on, friendship grew into love and I found myself in love with this man no matter the circumstances. He had a 12 yr old son and an 8 year old daughter. Before our relationship ever became official I asked him if he had any problems with his kids mothers as they do have two different moms,he assured me that he did not.