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Condom in SS13 pocket

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Submitted by Sootica on Fri, 07/10/2015 - 1:07pm

At the beginning of the year I told DH he needs to have a serious talk with SS13 about the birds and the bees as in addition to all the drama SS was causing at school I just had a gut instinct SS was up to no good.Of course DH didn't and 2 months ago we find out SS13 has a GF14 who he has been dating for the last 7 months with BM's blessing.Well doing the washing yesterday guess what I pull out of SS pocket?A condom wrapper and used condom :jawdrop:

The adventures of SS13....

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Submitted by Sootica on Wed, 06/03/2015 - 4:29pm

DH had a medical appointment late this afternoon.I was at work and wouldn't be home until 6pm so DH told SS he is to come straight home after school and then go to his hospital appointment with him. This was arranged on Tuesday evening (SS stays with us every single Tues & Weds & alternate weekends). DH tellls SS that it's really important he doesn't mess about after school as they will be tight for time.DH was up in London in meetings all day so had to race back to be back in time for SS coming home from school.

Had a massive argument with DH

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Submitted by Sootica on Mon, 06/01/2015 - 1:44pm

Last Sunday was SS13's big game. After enduring DH acting like a complete Disney daddy,BM acting like MOTY, both SILS getting into an argument with each other. Older SIL -Debbie-acting like best friends with BM, MIL sulking because FIL turned up with his partner and their daughter,Kate, I finally tried to talk to DH tonight about the test results, which resulted in a massive argument.

Update on yesterday's blog -Give me strength!

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Submitted by Sootica on Thu, 05/21/2015 - 7:52am

Sally you were right .....

Following on from yesterday's blog entry:

DH had a chat with SS13 regarding his bad behaviour at school-for all of 5 mins! When asked about the incident at lunchtime (teacher telephoned DH to inform him SS had been caught simulating a sex act on an ice lolly -he was pretending he was giving a BJ-in the cafeteria) SS just said he didn't know why he did it so DH assumed he didn't know what he was doing and proceeded to tell SS why this was inappropriate.Are you kidding me??Of course he knew what he was doing.

SS school drama continues

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Submitted by Sootica on Wed, 05/20/2015 - 9:49am

I had a call from DH this afternoon,as I'm home today so will be here when SS13 gets in from school,DH says SS is not to go out when he gets in from school.DH had TWO calls from the school today - 1 from the head and 1 from a teacher about SS behaviour disrupting the whole class and an incident during lunchtime.

DH's take on SIL conversation -double standard much?!

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Submitted by Sootica on Tue, 05/19/2015 - 3:22am

MIL has had some surgery recently and has stayed a week with each SIL and is due to come stay with us next. DH went to drop off something at SIL yesterday and says to me last night "You know SIL is so inconsiderate, MIL hasn't been feeling so great and SIL kept talking about Kate yesterday, MIL doesn't want to hear about all that."

Cheesegate

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Submitted by Sootica on Sun, 04/12/2015 - 10:36am

Earlier this afternoon SS13 was out in the back yard messing around and DH was in the kitchen fixing lunch.SS comes in and DH says to him "Please wash your hands and wrap up the cheese which is in the fridge,the packaging isn't sealing properly anymore",to which SS replies "No why should I,I didn't use it last" so DH tells him "Actually you probably did because Sootica & I have been on a juice cleanse the last 2 weeks so you are the only person who has been consuming solids".SS continues to pout like a little princess and starts arguing how he doesn't see why he should do it as he didn'

Parenting 101

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Submitted by Sootica on Wed, 04/08/2015 - 3:47am

If your child was caught on CCTV at school burning paper in the toilets,do you say they are grounded and then proceed to:

Angel Actually ground them,remove their electronic devices and make them do chores (as threatened)
(b) Ground them but let them keep the TV in their room
(c) Let them keep the TV in their room and take them to watch a football game

SS starts a fire at school

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Submitted by Sootica on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 11:20am

DH had a telephone call from SS13 school this morning. SS set a fire in the toilets yesterday. Luckily no one was hurt and the fire was put out before it could spread. DH and BM have both agreed SS is grounded and all electronics to be taken away,although since this was done with the stealing incident a while back and clearly didn't help I'm not really sure why they think it will be an effective means of punishment this time around.School has suspended him on Monday,only for one day.

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