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Devastated

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Well our happiness was short lived.I had a scan yesterday which revealed the baby's heartbeat is very weak & the scan today revealed the heart had stopped beating altogether.So tomorrow which would have been my 8 week scan I am having an ERPC instead.Devastated doesn't begin to explain how I feel right now.

O/T : IVF worked!

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DH and I had another round of IVF in Feb and much to our delight it has worked! We had our viability scan today and saw a teeny,tiny heartbeat flickering away. We are both over the moon, as we are not telling anyone IRL yet so I thought I would share with my fellow Steptalk sistas Smile

Parents Evening

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It was parents evening at SS13 school. DH went to an earlier appointment slot and BM to the later one. They use to attending them together up until SS started attending secondary school and BM ramped up the crazy when she couldn't manipulate DH anymore.DH came back really upset because SS has been just as unruly at school as he had been at home. Yes there has been a slight improvement at home since the electronics ban and stealing incident, but not a huge improvement.

Yes BM,it's all DH fault you can't read!

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Skid was at our house last weekend.He had an out of town soccer match scheduled on the Sat but Thurs the coach sends an e-mail saying game has been postponed to this Sat.DH forwards the e-mail to BM.Fast forward to this morning,DH had his mobile on silent as he wanted to sleep in but wakes up to 2 missed calls from the soccer coach and a barrage of text messages from BM.

So angry with DH right now!

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Following on from last night's text regarding SS stealing I get a call while I am out today from DH to say BM rang this morning to discuss SS stealing and lying and what punishment shall be implemented at both households.He then mentions he has been looking at boarding schools to send SS to if his behaviour doesn't improve, I say "I'm at the check out now can we discuss continue this conversation this evening" DH says sure.I then get a copy of an e-mail he sent to BM this afternoon,basically a summary of their phone conversation from this morning & in the e-mail he says " I have been lo

Sticky fingers strike again!

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This weekend SS was with us.A good friend of mine came to visit from out of town and SS shows off the new tracksuit BM got him for Christmas "it cost £190 you know", new trainers "they cost over £100" and then a tatty Gucci wallet "mum got this second hand it cost over £200"!

Stealing

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Yesterday DH shows me a text he got from SS12 (soon to be 13) asking if he could please go to an under 18's club night. SS is with us every Tues & Weds eve hence the request in advance. DH agreed he could go and would drop him off and pick him up. Personally I would have said no as I think SS is too young and also way too immature -but what do I know right?! I didn't comment when DH showed me the message because (all together now) "Not my monkey,not my circus!" .

No phonecall at Christmas

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This morning DH & I woke up to a message on DH's phone from SS wishing dad & Sootica a merry Christmas.Time of message received was 03:30am.DH said "SS must be so excited it's Christmas he couldn't sleep so he must have wanted to wish us early" to which I replied "SS probably knew BM would not allow him to ring you to wish you Merry Christmas so SS had to do it on the sly without her knowing." Now last Christmas when SS was with us after he opened his Christmas stocking and before opening the gifts under the tree at 09:30am DH gave him the phone and told him to ring BM to wish her M

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