My husband and I are recently married, but have been together for 4 years, living together with his half time 9 year old son for 3 years. I have been very involved in SS's school and sports from the get-go, volunteering with school events, fundraisers, helping his teachers, being coach and assistant coach for various sports etc. Well, this week was SS's parent teacher conference, that I arranged, which DH and I planned to attend with no word on whether BM would go.