BM is insinuating that my husband is not SD8's father!

She has sent him numerous emails, including one to his work email, which she has never done before. She's desperate for attention. One of the emails asked him why he won't talk to her on the phone & she said, "this is more important than you may realize". Another email asks for his blood type. Hmmmm...so she hasn't come out & said it yet, but it sure is sounding like my husband's suspicions were right.

My husband just got an email from BM, saying that she wanted to talk to him after SD8 had gone to bed. She suggested Thursday at 8:30, which technically, SD8 would not be sleeping by then, but whatever. My husband emailed her back & said no phone calls, if she had something to say, she could write a letter (or email). Yay! Because this is what I was thinking, too. A phone call from BM that late would mean neither of us would be sleeping until after midnight, because we'd be discussing whatever she called about. We've had enough of those nights!!!

Today begins week 4 -- the final -- of SD8's month with us. I had envisioned this month being COMPLETELY different than it has turned out. My husband & I naively thought that we'd have a month with SD8 to enjoy our time with her, take her on weekend trips, play games, etc. A month without SD8 acting like a mini BM because she'd be away from her. We could work on her manners, rudeness, hygiene, etc.

My last blog a few weeks ago was about BM interfering during our time with SD8. Well, it's gotten worse. SD8 has been with us for less than 3 weeks & BM has called almost 20 times. If we don't answer, she calls back repeatedly from different phone numbers. It's insane. And when she does talk to SD8, she brags about what they're going to be doing next month when SD8 is with her. On Monday, BM called & SD8 was all excited to tell her about our trip on Sunday to Six Flags. Well, BM would interrupt & SD8 would say, "Oh COOL!". How insecure can a person be?!