many responded to my earlier post about my ss's BM allowing her boyfriends oldest daughter who is 14 to keep ss, her sisters 9 and 11 and ss little brother who is not even 18mths. many said they would not feel comfortable with that, or it was too much on a 14 years old, how much were they gonna pay her and how mature is she? Well no they are not going to pay her I think that is the only reason the girls are going to be there all summer(usually there only every other weekend and I wonder if their BM knows this)is to keep my ss and his little brother.

I have read in several post from yall that several have the week on week off schedule with the kids. We are trying for that with my ss. BM said it will only confuse him if it is that way and that it is way too much back and forth. SS is 7 will be 8 in Sept. currently we get one night a week and every other weekend. That means in a 2week period there is 6 back and forth trips as opposed to if we did get week at a time that would be one pick up from dad and one pick up from mom in a 2 week period. I would think she would see the good in this as it less she has to deal with us and vice versa.