I'm new to Step Talk and fairly new to stepping. My husband and I have a blended family - I have two boys (9 and 15) and he has a son who lives with us (10), a daughter who lives with her mom (11), and a daughter who lives on her own (19). When we married, it had been after much discussion about discipline and expectations of our children....I really wanted to do this in a way that was healthy for everyone concerned.