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being made into the bad guy

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So yesterday while ss16 was out running the mammoth dog, I looked at DH and said how since he took in the dog without me wanting it and for sure without following my "well we might take this dog in but ONLY if the fence gets done first so we have aplace for him to be safe and the he gets fixed" and since the dog is still unfixed two months later and the fence is still not done and so now the dog has shit and pissed ALL OVER my yard (and every one else's in the neighborhood likely) and worst but not least, now ss16 is fully attached to said dog, I will now >OF COURSE< be the bad guy wh

Football season, sore cold butt, not my kid, zap me up oh Great One!

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Ok, there comes a time in a woman's life when all she can do is sit there with her jaw dropped and wonder how the heck DH can make such a crazy request. Ok so here it is, ss16 has been training this summer for football season. He is planning on playing this fall right? He missed last year but has played every year since kindergarten and DH has coached every year too except last year b/c of cancer. So he is telling me about how ss16's playing but his school this year has alot of their games away from home, it's an every other year thing.

Effin rotten day - already - dark moody rant

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I wish I had just gone to work instead of taking the day off to spend with mil and aunt in law. So for those of you who remember, that mammoth dog we gave to ss19 that dh adopted, it came back, you were right about ss19 not being responsible enough to keep a mammoth dog. So this dog has been here for weeks now, not fixed yet, stuck to the side of ss16 and will obey no one else. Last evening while we were all sitting down to dinner I told the dog to go lie down and ss16 says he's fine. So now ss16 is interfering with me trying to control this huge dog? what the eff?????

Mil is arriving today for the weekend

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Oh yay, NOT. I like her enough but it's the fact that then ss16 comes out of the wood work and sits around and listens to the adults endlessly and is always so restless and annoying. I might be the only one who notices though, and now that he is older he also goes on outings with us and Grandma always lets him sit in the front. That's my spot, in the front with DH. Ba. Annoys the hell outta me. I think this weekend I am going to politely turn down going out and instead enjoy the quiet house. DH won't like it but suddenly my tummy hurts or something.

The other side of cancer which is called remission - OT

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Dh had his last chemo treatment yesterday. I did the usual, drive him there, go in to see doc with him, sit and wait for him to get hooked up to the drip, sip coffee and read a magazine while the nurse calls in or writes prescripts and has the doc sign them all, then I run to the pharmacy to drop off all prescrips, drive around and do a few errands while they're being filled, then go back and deal with well the insurance company won't fill this one so come back in two days, etc. Drive by Subway and pick up a 6" for DH with roast beef, light mayo, heavy mustard, lettuce and cheese.

1st b'day party for sgs

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Sd27 was here this weekend with sgs8months and she is planning a 1st birthday party for him; his birthday is the day before TG this year and this year is DH's family thanksgiving meal and sd is planning the party for the day after at a neutral place and it'll be fun and all but BM#1 is going to be there. DH's immediate response to sd announcing this party and bm being there was "cool, I haven't seen her in 20 years, it'll be fun". Ok so now I am going to be a wreck by the time this party happens.

unbelievable...

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...Ss16's 21 yr old gf is in my house and DH is allowing it ... b/c they go to church and are refraining from having "ya know" ... so it's ok that they hang out together. The weird part is that she is sooooo immature. (finger down throat :sick: )

update on "my house isn't a shelter for homeless animals"

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YAY! Dh worked it out so the Bull mastiff dog (who is part pit) is going to go live with ss19. Ss19 just moved into his own tiny one bedroom house but it has a big fenced yard. Yesterday we called him and asked if he could take the dog if we help him with the expense of getting the dog fixed and help out with food if needed. Ss19 can bring him on visits weekly.

my house isn't a shelter for homeless animals

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Ok I wasn't going to write about this but it's annoying me. A few days ago, after our big fight about the second cell phone and all that crap, DH brings home a bull mastif dog. All of you know how much I dislike dogs and love cats. I am a cat person plain and simple, not really a dog person though my brothers always had dogs but my mom always said no dogs in the house and she stuck to her guns (how my mom was so strong and set good boundaries is till a mystery to me and I wish I was more like her!).

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