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Just when I think it can't get any more bizarre; it gets more bizarre.

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OK, so I find out today that my older sd's boyfriend/father of baby is in the jail on a dv charge for getting drunk and grabbing her. The cops showed up and took him to jail and there he sits with a restraining order on him. I'm assuming that she called the cops but she is angry about the restraining order.

Mudslingingville: There is no joy.

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So there was a settlement conference today between my hb and BM. She could not stop herself from making allegations that had nothing to do with the case the entire hearing. The judge kept trying to steer her back on track and finally asked my hsb and his lawyer to leave so he could talk to BM privately. After the chit chat with the judge BM was much more agreeable.

Jimminy Cricket!!! Does the drama never end? Not invited to step-grandson's birthday. (I didn't expect to be)

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I actually never had any intention of going to the b-day party for step-grandson because I don't want to be around the X or the Father. SD loves to make up stories to get people to hate me; BIG LIES. So I know the Father has violent attitude toward me and I don't like being around that kind of animosity.

I spent a half an hour with my counselor to figure out a fair solution to the problem. I decided I was agreeable to having hb go without me on any night but the two nights that our couple time. There was ample time to plan around the other 28 days of husband's availability.

The darkness that lurks when I think about BM. (Post not for the faint of heart)

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I know this sounds horrible but I have slowly started to come to the conclusion that the BM's really just got pregnant with my huband to turn him into her own personal version of welfare.

I used to be really sympathetic to single mom's on welfare and getting cp, but I'm really getting soured by these woman's behavior. My hb's first wife has never had a job a day in her life. Yes having three kids is a job, but her only son left is now 12 she could work while he's in school. Instead she just collects my husband's returement check and badmouths him all the while.

No time to see skids.

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I have such a hectic schedule. I went dancing last night for the first time in a bazillion years so I ended up missing their weekend. Then I woke up with such a bad headache that I went to a walk in clinic for medicine. I don't smoke/drink or anything so I have to find out what's up with all these headaches.

Anyway I didn't go to ss Aikido demonstration this morning. To be honest I don't want to see BM or my sd who used to live with us and is truly awful to me. I did ask him how it went though.

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