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why does everyone want to talk to me about SS's BM?

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Submitted by TheCharm on Sat, 07/25/2009 - 5:14pm

Its been almost 4 years now and I still hear about The Weasel from DH's friends, coworkers and family. They tell me stories (all of them bad) but I really don't want to hear it. I don't know how to tell them that I don't want to know about how bad their marriage was or what a crazy bitch she is. I already know. I'm sure they mean well...want me to feel like they like me more or something. But its just a painful reminder that the evil Weasel exists. Its like an intrusion on my peace of mind. DH hates to hear that I've gotten an earful too and says he'll tell them to stop doing it.

Introducing me, Dudebug, The Weasel, and DH

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Submitted by TheCharm on Wed, 07/22/2009 - 1:41pm

I have been married to my DH for 1.5 years after dating for 2.5. My SS is now 8, so technically I have been a part of his life for half of his life. In the begining things with Dudebug were good and at times, great. He was always accepting and affectionate. I never overstepped my boundaries. We had lots of fun. I made some very positive changes at DH's bachelor pad. I instituted bedtime stories, made sure teeth were brushed daily and nightly, cooked good food and taught Dudebug table manners.

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