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O/T The Panic Ensues
One of my younger coworkers has taken to playing dumb about work procedures of which I have both documented and have told him personally about/ sent him emails on before.
My last day of work is Friday. I again reminded him where the documentation is kept and that it is all there.
This is very similar to skids not being able to find anything because they are too lazy to look and want somebody else to do it for them.
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For those of you with Older PASed out Skids
Who haven't set foot in your houses for weeks, months or years. It DOES get easier over time for your SO/DH. It's a sad state of affairs and of course, should be prosecuted for the crime it is against the children, however, the western world winks at it via the court system and various governmental agencies.
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Entitlement as CS is ending
Interesting article on HCGUBM entitlement. The HousesHitter (YSS stb 20) appears to be working full time (reminder: in NYS CS goes to 21 automatically regardless) One yr 3 mos to go but who's counting, LOL.
https://shrink4men.com/2019/06/16/the-final-child-support-payment-brace-...
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Mr. Not So Neutral
Calls out of the blue. Because he wants something, of course. He wants Chef to come out and fix his roof after he screwed up the flashing. He lives about 30 min away in far end Girhippoville.
Just ugh. We have a million of our own projects!
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Thirteen Years
Since the HousesHitter YSS (19.5) PASed out for good as of yesterday. Totally zero contact. And I don't miss him one iota! He was stb 7 yrs old when the Girhippo and her fam poisoned his mind (and his two older siblings a year earlier) for good.
Fast forward to today. Via social media, I see he is most likely working at one of the local manufacturing plants, the Gir downsized to a new house even CLOSER to her clan (didn't think that was possible other than to move in with them) and who knows if the HousesHitter moved in to the downsized house?
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I Hired a PI
to find out if the HousesHitter (YSS stb 20) moved in to the new, downsized house with the Gir and StepDaddyBigBucks.
He is supposedly working full time at a local manufacturing plant (the same plant my new tenant works for--she has an office job though). If moved out, we can FINALLY cut the Gir off the payroll after almost two decades!
As a reminder, CS goes to age 21 here.
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Pretty Sure Pumpkinhead ((OSS stb 26) Is Moving
To our county. He and his fiancee of 2 yrs are about 25 min away in the county north of us (where we used to live 16 yrs ago and where our current rental property is). His old job was in that town but now he has a job at our county's ARC. The odds of me running into him on my job is relatively high (thank goodness I'm retiring in 2.5 months).
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Interesting Article on Adult Children of PAS
https://psychcentral.com/blog/full-heart/2020/06/parental-alienation-adu...
I pretty much gathered this especially in cases of extreme PA.
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Who's Skid Is This?
So I have a 3 bdrm newly remodeled apt for rent 9/1. Against my better judgement, I advertised on FB marketplace. A duckfaced Gen Z chick posted that my ad was a SCAM because my automated (2 step) process asks for full name and current address!
Seriously? I also get push back on SS# which is more understandable but in NYS, squatters and renters have more rights than the actual property owners!
You can't screen based on evictions, source of income, ESAs.
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UGH Chef's Relatives!
So this morning I get a call from Seasoned Citizen which is Chef's oldest half brother. He is heading towards being 80 years old and is the most friendly of all but usually only calls when he wants something done on his computer. Once a year around Christmas or Thanksgiving he shows up with some bottom shelf liquor. LOL
He also is an enabling guilty daddy as far as one of his sons is concerned and is always giving money to him.
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