First post, long time lurker.  I'm paranoid about getting "found out" that I'm on here posting my grievances of step life so at this point in time, I'd prefer not to share particular details (ie number of step kids, ages, boys/girls, etc) but rather share my feelings and experiences in hopes of getting reassurance from strangers on the internet that I'm not in fact alone in my feelings. It's so hard when I don't have any close friends who are in blended family situations so it's easy to feel very isolated.