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When does the cute phase end?

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I have been thinking a lot about this lately in regards to SS(5). He'll be 6 in around three months. I have noticed some changes with SS's attitude lately. From his temper tantrum where he was screaming that he didn't love DH anymore, that he hated him, and that he wanted to live with him mom forever (I couldn't believe that he said those things. It's so unlike him.) to his listening skills where he just wants to do what he wants to do and it doesn't matter what you think or say.

I am getting sick of bedtime with SD and SS (Need advise)

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So SS(5) and SD(7) have been pulling the bedtime BS again. As soon as it's time for bed SD starts crying about how she misses mommy and then after we finally get her into bed and she gets her hugs and kisses when it's DH and my time it's, "daddy I need you. I need to tell you something," and then SS starts in with his fake crying. You know the whaaaaaa, ooohhhh, baaaaa, whaaaaa, "daddy I need you. Daddy I need to tell you something," whaaaaaa, ooohhhhh, baaaaa, whaaaaaa. This can go on for over an hour. DH usually doesn't respond other then to tell them to go bed from the living room.

The talk

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So last night DH and I had a talk about his behavior as of late. For those of you who read my blog from yesterday you'll know exactly what I am talking about.

DH ruined my BD's Bday for me!!!! I am effing pissed!!!!

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If any of you have been following my blogs you'll know that moving my BD out of SD's room into the den was a huge fight. Then there was the bedroom make over that I wanted to for her for her bday. (She has spent the last year with her stuff smashed into the office with a huge computer desk. It's basically an office with a bed in it.) DH of course needs to fight this tooth and nail even though I did the same thing for his BD last year for her Bday because she was so upset (whatever) that my BD moved out of her room (try being a freaking nice human being).

DH told BM off yesterday

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According to DH I guess BM called him at work while he was really busy to bitch him out about having to pay $36 dollars at the dentist yesterday due to SD(7) needing nitros because she had a cavity.

DH was p!ss and basically told BM to stop being a cheap a$$, he didn't know they were going to give her or charge for the nitros, that it was for SD's confort while they were working on her mouth, and not to call him about this stupid sh!t anymore.

To punish or not to punish that is the question.

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So Friday morning I went into the kids bathroom to help my BD(7) brush the back of her hair (she has a curly patch of hair underneath the top layer just on the back of her head and brush all of the tangles out of it) when I noticed some of my makeup sitting on the counter. I hardly ever use this makeup because it's expensive and I try to only use it when I'm going out for a special occassion.

SS(5) had a major meltdown at school yesterday

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So DH came home and told me that BM called him to let him know that when she was dropping SS(5) off at school he freaked out and was screaming and kicking. I guess apprently he wanted to go to work with her instead of school. When she got him into the class room he lost it again and was screaming and kicking the door. He finally made it out of the classroom and made it to BM, which I'm not sure where she was at. So BM just took him to work with her instead of him going to kindergarten.

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