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Update on the poor pitiful DH

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Forgive me everyone for complaining about my pooooor pitiful sick husband ... He has managed to get out of bed and move to the couch and up half a load of laundry ... The other half is sitting in our living room floor. Why? Bc he is waiting on the next load of clothes to get dry so he can put it all up at once ..the next load was towels.. The clothes he has yet to put up our toddler threw all over the place while I was cooking lunch for my child and my poooooooor sick hubby ..

And it starts

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Since BM didn't get her way in court she's already started the text messaging DH complaining about stupid little crap....oooh u didn't return socks, where's the underwear they wore from my house? Really lady you wanna start that garbage.. How about you send the nike lunch boxes we got the kids instead of the ones you got 2 years ago... Or how about the birthday present your child's grandparents from the father side.. Send that back ..drives me insane!! Rant over .. For now

Duh BM new family is nornal

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We had court the other day... DH just told me while talking about his vacation days BM said "he even took days off when the kids didn't have a ball game" ... In other words he's not suppose to take time off to spend with his wife and their child ... Of course the judge looked at her like she was stupid .. I mean yes it's ok to spend time with the other part of his family ..

Mornings

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DH wants me to get up and take my SKs to school when I'm off and let him sleep in. He huffs up when I won't get up and get them ready and take them. I use to alternate with him and do it once or twice a week (he only has to take them 3 days a week). One of the kids will not mind me and is disrespectful to all parents in his life. A lot of the time in the mornings he is fussing at this child and it turns into a yelling match.Why would I want to get up on my off day to deal with this?

Venting-feel like I'm going crazy

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I feel like I'm in the middle if a loosing battle. I have step kids and a bio kid. One step child(9) is not a bad kid. The normal call down occasionally is about it, the other is the issue. He is sassy, yells at us, tells my 2 year old to do stuff that I just said don't do. I've tried disengaging and letting DH do it all and he was doing good backing me up for a few months and then this week BAM it's back to let the kid say whatever he wants and he does nothingn about it. This child puts my kid up to saying curse words (even in church).

CONTROL YOUR KIDS MOUTH DH

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I was nice enough to pick up the SKs from BM and let DH sleep since he works nights. As we are pulling out BM is waving bye to them and I said wave to your mom she's waving at you... SS9 looks at BS2 and says "BS say bye bye mommy" I corrected him, next SS is chewing in BS toys trying to mess them up and I told him not to. So then he tells BS to chew them up. Next I tell BS to get his fingers out of his mouth and quit biting his nails. So he does and SS says "BS do it again" so he does.. I tell him no and tell SS he has no business telling him to do something I just said not to do ...

Why can't he pick up !!

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Just when I think he's gonna man up and start doing his share & I stupidly get my hopes up.. He let's me down .. Again ... The house was clean when I left for work Monday morning .. SKs come back and I have crap to pick up after working a 12.5 shift & 3 hours in the car ... But I did dishes, and washed a load of laundry ... Today ... I worked the same and we went to the store, picked up toys(which he blames our kid for & the SKs had no part of it) ..

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