Skids spend every other wk at my house then bm house. At my house you lose electronics for low grades, not following through with assignments & poor behavior. At bm there are no rules. No big deal if grades drop, work doesn't get done etc... Makes me & dad the bad guys when they constantly lose privileges at our house, but get to live it up at bm's. Education is extremely important to me, but doesn't seem to be with skids or bm. The kids that still come to our house are in elementary & jr high. I am always playing catch up on my week. It's a bunch of bull!