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Just when I think the ex is finally finished being an idiot ...

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Submitted by YoungCanuck on Sat, 06/15/2013 - 8:45am

So ... The ex and her on again off again, verbally abusive boyfriend decide to get married after more than five years of BS, fighting, breakups. Great plan.
Then (big surprise) they are divorcing after a few months. The plan WAS to keep their traps shut until school ended for the year so the skids don't have to move again, but no ... The ex cannot keep her mouth closed without duct tape or staples. What does she do?? She tells my poor, sensitive SS on his f**king birthday!!! :jawdrop:

Damn ... what I didn't realize about the BM having the majority of the custody ...

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Submitted by YoungCanuck on Tue, 05/21/2013 - 9:22am

When the kids were younger my husband wanted them to come and live with us because he worried his ex wouldn't do a good job. I wasn't so keen on full time custody & apparently I didn't see/know what hubby did, so I ixnayed that idea.
Fast forward 12 years ... now, after BM essentially raised them we have two miniature versions of HER with all her neuroses, fears, inability to deal with life, etc. :sick:

God ... not again.

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Submitted by YoungCanuck on Thu, 05/02/2013 - 2:42pm

I have to get this off my chest because I'm going to explode ...

It's officially summer holidays for college & university students in Canada (which is BULLSHIT because it's only SPRING).
That means my eldest stepson 21 is staying here again for the summer while he works for his father. FOUR MONTHS! :jawdrop:

OMG ... kill me now.
If I wanted children living here full time don't you think I might have had my own bio-kids? :?

Am so happy to have found this site. Thank you everyone.

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Submitted by YoungCanuck on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 10:26am

Marrying my husband took me away from my hometown & my friends all slowly disappeared. I have no one to talk to short of my DH & my parents. My self-esteem has been almost destroyed, I barely recognize myself anymore. Most of what happens with my DH, the bitch & the skids I just internalize because my family has NO idea what it's like to be a step-anything.

Tired of paying & paying ...

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Submitted by YoungCanuck on Tue, 07/31/2012 - 10:12am

Have been married to DH for 11 years. For the first 7 we/he paid $3000 a month in alimony & child support. Fast forward to the present ... still paying support for one kid SS16, the other SS20 my DH is paying rent on a fancy schmancy condo in Toronto so his highness has all the conveniences that SM (who fornicates with DH) doesn't even have. To top it off he is living in our house this summer while the fancy condo sits empty until it's time to go back to college. (grrrrrrrrr)

Is September here YET?

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Submitted by YoungCanuck on Thu, 07/26/2012 - 2:22pm

My SS20 has been living here for the summer while he works nearby. Normally the SKIDS would only be here every other weekend or so. It isn't even August and I can hardly stand it anymore!! I love my DH but I didn't sign up for summer long custody!! He's a pretty good kid, but all he does is sit on his a$$ like our house is Club Med or something. And the bitching and complaining ... he is like a miniature version of his mother.

The last email message from crazy BM to DH & me

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Submitted by YoungCanuck on Thu, 07/26/2012 - 12:46pm

I am new here but thought I'd start with this gem.

Below is the last email message from crazy BM to DH & me. After this message I blocked her from being able to send me emails, being able to see or contact me on Facebook & have no interest in seeing or speaking to her again. When the SKIDS are both >18 I am going to have my lawyer draw up a cease and desist, no further contact order & this so-called "Biologically linked co-parenting relationship" will screech to a halt. She thinks she is so bloody smart.

Here we go ...