any help would be so much help...I have a 9 y.o. stepson who in the four years that my husband and i have been married has slowly started to manipulate our marriage. It started with little things such as running to his father if he didn't like my answer, but now has turned into lies, stealing and my husband doesn't seem to see what he is doing, but rather arguing with me that I am too hard on my stepson and that i need to stop being so hard on him.