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And so it starts with SS

12yrstepmonster's picture

The same crap that SD did is now starting with SS. Calls up and says..gee dad can I do this on your weekend, that on your weekend. I don't want to come over this weekend. On the weeknight visit i need you to drop me off here at this time.

Dh's birthday weekend and SS isn't coming over he is going to a basketball game instead. He goes to the gym on the weeknight visit.

And I know that Dh can say no, but I'm sorry to the a certain degree I think that BM should say no......you dad gets you 4 days a month and it will not kill you to not go to the game.

We are already being told he won't be coming for his extended visit this summer due to football workout. I guess it is all summer, you know from the time they get out of school until the go back to school. Problem is we played this game once and he didn't go as much as we were told.

We live about 35 minutes from them...so it's not like we can just run back and forth all weekend long.

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12yrstepmonster's picture

It's as my dd18 said......I would do anything to be able to get to see my dad- and they have them right here and it's a hassle. Some days I wonder why I try so hard. He's going to WATCH basketball, not play in it. And it has been like this since the beginning of school!

on a side note: my exh moved out of state when DD was 2.5. She usually goes twice a year. AS she has gotten older we have had to work around some summer activities but we pour over schedules to maximize as much time with him as possible. She talks to him all the time (THANKS VERIZON). He is truly a good dad.