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Submitted by kalaodell on Thu, 06/11/2020 - 1:37am

He finally did the paternity test just awaiting the results. but that's whatever. I don't know what do to do it's a competition between SD and DD that's not even 2 yet. The comment she made this weekend was quite bratty. " I have more toys than she (DD) does. Says the SD. Petty shit but still it's like you come to my house and play with my DD toys and I mean she has a 13x13 room filled with toys. And a trampoline and we have a pool and a huge playscape but still not the point. What can I do to make it so there's less competition. I don't think they will get along when they are older if the competition keeps going in the direction it is

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Submitted by tog redux on Thu, 06/11/2020 - 4:45am

So if she's not his, are you hoping he won't see her anymore? What if he doesn't agree to that?

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 06/11/2020 - 8:41am

Toys=Love to your SD, we know this isn't true but to her it is. She is announcing that she is more loved. Why? Because her parents aren't together- it is all a competition. Your DD has mommy and daddy all the time. SD doesn't. I am not saying poor pitiful SD the COD, I am saying for a young child, this is common and makes sense. 

Try not to let those comments get any reaction- Just nod, and say "Cool story". Then move on. 

What are the plans if SD isn't his? 

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Submitted by fakemommy on Thu, 06/11/2020 - 8:21am

I disagree with above and would start teaching her there is more to value in life than just stuff.