if you see stepchild Marrow it was an error and I could not delete it. 
 

I went totally no contact with my stepdaughter/46 because she was acting immature and I just figured the less I talk to her the better so a year and I haven't talked to her except once. A few weeks ago she send a text and a picture and says "we got married" This was the justice of the peace in the town where they have land. ; so I said congratulations. She said yeah we're real happy "second time is the charm" so I said congratulations again and said "your dad and I thought that as well"/we were a second marriage ( if you ever wanted to find two couples who were perfect for each other, my husband and I were for ourselves and this girl and the boyfriend no husband are for each other. Enough Said.)**** I got this ice cold bunch of texts. ******The last one was "you don't have a second times the charm because dad never got divorced" well yeah her mother died 11 years before I married her father, but it was a second marriage for each one of us and we always knew she didn't want us to get married but we just let it go. She was 21.then--it was a backstab. I think they waited this long because her father hated the guy/now her husband and how he behaved to her and the fact he never got far enough to let us meet the family/his mother siblings, etc. – I happen to have known his father simply because I worked with him years and years and years ago. On the other hand he was also deceased.

it was a backstab. I think they waited this long because her father hated the guy/now her husband and how he behaved to her and the fact he never got far enough to let us meet the family/his mother siblings, etc. , It's al so probably because he might not have to pay child support now with the kid growing up.– I happen to have known his father simply because I worked with him years and years and years ago. He on the other hand was also deceased. This is the boyfriend now husband who took things out of my house when he shouldn't have. It's the boyfriend now husband who had a seven or eight-year-old kid when they started dating and now that kid is 17 or 18 and no one has ever met him. I think you get the idea.
 

I was so hurt it was unbelievable. I went down to see my lawyer and just make sure that our will is locked up tight so that money only goes to blood relatives and yes that's what it is. Bottom line? Safe there --of course somewhere down the line when I go the portion of the will that goes to her she'll probably spend it on him anyway and you know what I don't care. What I care about is being so worried that I am thinking of getting cameras for my yard especially since the other night I heard a car roll into my driveway and it turned on the motion sensor light and the lights on the car went off. Around 1030 at night on Halloween I, I figured it was just idiots. I looked out the window from where it was dark and all I could see was a dark SUV with lights out which then turned around and left. Two hours later? Same thing. (My husband's SUV, which my stepdaughter now has was a really dark SUV that looks like the one that was out there can I prove it no. It would make absolutely no sense to try to make a police report. If all I can say is some car was in the driveway ). In any case, the fire poker and the Louisville slugger both came out/and my stepdaughter? She doesn't have keys to my house. I changed those locks less than two weeks after her father died

i just needed to get this out of my system. I just all of you with weird step kids they come back like snakes into your life. Will listen to me.. I'm not here a lot. I haven't been here in over a year. I needed to vent. I'm angry. I'm angry that she denied her father a "potential grandchild" even if the kid had been seven when she started out with this guy now, husband. I don't know.( My daughters children, are our only grandchildren and he loved them so dearly)  I just feel like she was contacting me expecting a big present and I'm not going to send her one and I don't really care. Lawyer said I don't owe her squat/she said if you didn't have a will? Everything would go to your daughter.( I can just imagine what a mess that would be this one would sue from now until the cows come home )

****so my question to all here: the stepdaughter still has some things here she inherited and I know my brother-in-law will come and watch the house so she only takes  and that the boyfriend doesn't even show up.. A friend suggested I ask for a restraining order against this boyfriend, now husband, seeing as he has taken things from the house before which are not hers. Anybody with an opinion? Specifically on this last paragraph and also on "should I give them a gift ""?.
 

I'd love to hear some opinions from you guys. I'm too old for this garbage