I have always liked to think that I have done my best maintaining a good relationship for my SS sake with his mom. I liked to have thought that ater 4 years she was slowly moving on and was finding something else to do other then sh*t on our lives. I liked to think that....

Recently I had done over my fair shares worth of fundraising for my SS's daycare, which I was really excited to do something for him without having to fight for the priilage. It was a findraiser for cards, calendars & chocolates that kind of thing. Well a few weeks later when the items arrived my FH went and picked up the box of all the itms for me to bring to work to give to all my employess who purchased the items.

Well suprise suprise if there wasn't a nice gift inside the big box of Christmas goodies. There were 20 fully labeled, stuffed beyond belief envelopes filled with pictures of their dating years, their wedding, their honneymoon (oh yeah nudes and all), first home, her preganancy, and any other memory she could fit in there. So there I was with all my staff there looking at this box... I think a small mob was about to form b/c they are all well aware of the "wonderful" antics she loves to pull. Now what I wanted to do was frame that sexy picture of her in the hottub naked from her honneymoon and frame it and give it back to her...I wanted to soooo badly... but we are in the middle of going to court for shared custody of thier son so I had to really watch my steps, so instead I wrote a letter....it read:

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EW

I just wanted to thank you for giving us the box of calendars and chocolates from SS’s school fundraiser. There were a couple items missing but there were notes acknowledging that they would be delivered at a later date and the girls are fine with that and are happy with what they ordered. They have also expressed their want to help in any other fundraising that the school may provide for SS so feel free to pass anything on.

However I wanted to let you know personally how disrespectful and inappropriate I thought it was to be passing on that box full of labeled past memories into our home. No matter what your intention may have been it was extremely inconsiderate to have sent them to our home. Your memories perhaps should have been placed into a photo album for SS because one day he may ask what life was like when his mom and dad were together however that was not the case. Having not told FH about your intention to give him these pictures and having placed them in the box with all the fundraising items, all of my employees were there to witness 20 fully labeled envelopes filled with your old honeymoon pictures, family holidays, your pregnancy, and first home together along with all the holidays and trips you shared when what they expected were chocolates, calendars and note pads.

I could understand the pictures of his truck when it rolled over, I can even understand old pictures of him and his family because they would mean a lot to him to have for safekeeping. What I cannot understand is why years after your separation you would feel he would want pictures of you, your honeymoon (especially you naked in the hot tub), your pregnancy and anything that would resemble his past relationship with you. Did you honestly expect him to accept these pictures with a feeling of obligation to keep them?

I would appreciate that in the future all of your mementos, photos, or anything else be disposed of in an appropriate manner if you no longer want to keep them…..may I recommend your closest garbage can?

I like to think that you and I have maintained a good relationship since we have met because I do respect you as SS’s mother and an individual. However I would appreciate the same respect especially when it comes to my family and my relationship with FH because they are my number one priority.

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I think that this was the high road I needed to take to show what a nutcase she really is. I certainly hope that this is something that we can use in court when the time comes. And I sure as hell hope that it made her feel like and idiot and a jackass for pulling such a stupid move....I hope.....