I don't know how to talk to my dh about how differently he treats our bd and the way he treats his son. When ss isn't here my dh is always right there with our bd, she is such a daddy's girl. I find it hard to watch our bd be ignored and the ss be hovered over because it really breaks bd heart. She is too little to understand why "daddy is not playing with me" or why "daddy is hugging another kid constantly" and not hugging me. I understand that we only get our ss on holidays and such but at the same time I feel like it is so hard on our bd to have to deal with the neglect during ss's stay here. It makes me resent my ss more than I already to. The only thing this kid wants is "full" attention at all times and "prizes" from whoever he can get them from. I just don't know how to explain this to my dh because he will say it is all in my head.....ect. My mom even noticed how upset my bd was last night about everything. She is just a baby and can't begin to understand what is going on. All she knows is daddy is mad at me. Help! What do I do??!