I was taught as a young child not to hate. I was told you don't really hate this/her/it you just don't like it very much. As I've grown older I have tried to live by those rules, but I can now say that hatred isn't a strong enough word for what I feel towards my husbands ex-wife. I have finally had enough of her and her lies, manipulations, etc. I went through a few months of complete depression because of her that I had to be put on an anti-depressant and see a counselor! My husband needs to do the same because he has even hinted at suicide before, but he is too hard headed to see a doctor concerning emotions. I say enough is enough and get a REAL life and leave us alone. She is remarried and has a child with her new husband who is age 14. Hubby and I have been married for 14 years, he was married twice before me. His first marriage is with the bitch from hell that he has the children with. Ages 19 and 21 now. We have a 10 year old son together. Our lives together are just great as long as the ex stays out of the picture. We will go a year or two with no problems and her trying to be our best friend and then WHAM! she knocks us down again. Financially and emotionally! So hatred again isn't a strong enough word to describe my feelings towards this woman. In 1995 she accused my husband of child abuse and had us investigated by DHS and when that didn't go the way she wanted she took hubby back to court for more child support. That time she only got $23 more a month. Years passed and time to time she would be "nice" and others a psychotic bitch. Medical bills were astronomical! Then in 2005 she had me and my husband arrested for domestic abuse which was thrown out basically. The charges were lowered to disorderly conduct because my husband did yell a lot in a public place. $10,000.00 in attorney and court fees later she decides she wants more child support again. Mind you, there is only one child left to support at this time who was turning 18 in less than 3 months. We settled in court and paid her $1500.00 and it was suppossed to be the end. One week after my mother passed away in December, 2005 we received papers from DHS Child Support Enforcement that she had turned hubby in as a dead beat dad. They have been holding $600 a month from hubby's check until we go to the hearing on the 18th to show proof that he had paid all along. This has been going on for 3 months now! My son has been taken away by DHS for 2 months, I've been in jail, and about to lose our home because of this evil woman. So again, Hatred isn't a strong enough word, but yet I can't think of one to describe the way I feel about her. I just hope that one day she gets what she deserves. A little bit of what she has dished out and see if she can take it! Sorry for this long post, but I just needed to get it off my chest and what better way to do it than here! Thanks for listening!