This is my first post and its more just to vent and possibly get some much needed advice. Im 26, have been with my husband for 4 1/2 years now and married for 1 1/2. Hes 40 and has 4 kids from a previous marriage. The two older live on their own are 21 and 19 and their a completely different story that i dont feel like going into. His younget daughters are 14 and 12 and both live with us basically full time except for every other weekend. When we first got together the kids were great. We all got along and had alot of fun. Then, as time went on things started to change. Especially with the now 14 year old. She would throw the biggest fits over everything especially when it came to her not getting her way. I remember her throwing herself on the ground in Walmart and having to drag her around by foot because i wouldn't buy her a book. I would have to push and pull her upstairs to go to bed and even had to call her older sister a few times to come over and handle her bc i got threatened to have the cops called on me by their POS mom if i touched them( which she is a completely other story on her own). I was constantly on the phone begging my then boyfriend to come home from work and handle them. But then things would get better and everything would be good. But with every thing good that happens, the bad hits you twice as hard. I left once because she spit and kicked me. I wouldve been gone for good if things hadnt happened with his older son and his probation officer asked me to come back and watch the girls. Then we got married. Even that day sucked bc of his daughter. Since then things have gotten completely out of control. She is manipulate, disrespectful, rude, wantz everything her way right that minute and i swear she is the devils child. I know teenage girls are tough and they're gonna have attitudes and talk bact. But she takes it to an extreme level! She can eveb cry on demand! And my husband is blind to it all! He is constantly making excuses for her, babies her, gives in and constantly and only grounds her wheb i force him to. He "talks" to her but that does no good. I dont even feel comfortable in my own house. If i buy something she automatically thinks she deserves it to. Seeing as how its "her dads money". And if you refuse to buy it for her she will throw a s*** fit. And all my husband doea is give in and buy it. I feel like she is the woman if the house and i am just the slave to cook, clean and do her laundry for her and be at her beckon call. I am done. I seriously hate her. I know thats wrong but i cant help it. She yells at me, her dad, hits her younget sister all the time, yells at her twenty times a day, and makes everyone's life a living hell. All my husband says is "dont worry about it, dont let her get to you, ill take care of it" but then, of course, he never does. How am i not supposed to worry about it? I would love to send her off to boarding school ir send her to live with her pathetic mom, but neither of those will happen. I have reached my limit. I love my husband and my youngest step daughter but i simply cannit do this anymore. What do i do???