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I came up with a New Years resolution for DH...

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 5:37pm

It may sound abit bossy but it must be my turn to boss him around by now, right? BM and SD have already had their turns. Today I told DH that from now on when BM calls and screams at him I am going to hang up the phone, he can no longer take her abuse in front of me and the kids. It's too hard to watch and lets the children see what a pu55y he is. She can call and abuse him when he is at work but it will no longer happen in front of us. Also when dinner is about to come out of the oven and SD demands to go home she will have two choices.

It has taken me until now to recover from last weekend.

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Thu, 12/16/2010 - 6:44pm

I thought about packing up DH's things and telling him he no longer lives with me. Yes, I hate SD(12) so much that I actually considered giving up my marriage just to get rid of her. Not just SD of course but BM and the way DH deals with them. Even though I am still mad as hell I realize that she does come only 1-2 nights per month and I will just try to stay out of the house rather than give up on our family. What led to this?

BD (2) told SD (12) to behave, lol

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Fri, 11/19/2010 - 8:14pm

This weekend we only have our bd(2) and sd(12). My other two are with their dad. SD was up to her usual antics. She was actually rolling around on the living room floor whining that she wanted to have a sleepover. DH told her no as she didn't behave the last time she had one. She was saying "pleeeease, I want toooo, pleeease dadddy, you're so MEAN, I HATE you!!! Pleeeeease dadddddy, whyyyyyyyy?" over and over again.
It's sort of funny I guess if you don't have to actually witness it.

BD "Why is sd whinning mommy?"

Another weekend with SD, how fun!

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 11/14/2010 - 7:32am

So SD(12)hasn't been over for the last 2 weekends but she came this weekend because it was BD(7) birthday party (she likes cake). We invited all the girls in her class and went bowling! It was fun, they are so little yet act so grown up, I love talking to them. Friday night was pretty uneventful as I was working and the true bitch that is SD only comes out when I'm around.

Exh has a girlfriend...

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Tue, 10/26/2010 - 9:13am

So, my exh's girlfriend moved in with him. His last one was a nightmare, calling me and asking personal questions about him and why we divorced. He has a baby with her and she's refusing him visitation because she doesn't want "her daughter around a new person", lol. I told DH that I think I'll tell the new girlfriend about this site as she'll need it to deal with that crazy BM.

It's almost friday, again!

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Thu, 10/14/2010 - 4:36pm

So, it's been 3 weeks since sd's come to our house. I'm wondering if she'll come tomorrow. DH usually doesn't tell me anything unless I ask him outright and a long time ago I promised myself that I would never bring up SD or BM unless she was at our house, it has saved alot of arguements. It's like a little weird game that we play, we both pretend that SD doesn't exist until she's actually there. It's working so I guess we'll keep doing it.

I am outta here, soon...

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 10/03/2010 - 9:15am

DH and I are going on a trip. we're taking off without any children (unfair I know, lol). We're taking 5 days to drive through the states and maybe get some good deals, have a stop at a casino and check out the white mountains while the trees are changing, I think that's probably specific enough without giving my whole itinerary, lol.
Anyone in NH? I just wondered if we're too late for changing leaves, last year we went 2 weeks earlier and we were too early.

DH I think you're using the wrong approach..

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Sun, 10/03/2010 - 9:11am

So SD12 decided that she wasn't coming this weekend. As I secretly did my "happy dance" I tried to be the supportive wife (a very hard thing to do).
I said why don't you just tell her that you're going to pick her up and she has no say. He said he didn't want to do that because she would be in a terrible mood all weekend.

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