I decided I'd have the members of DH's family that I actually like over for dinner after church on Sunday (Aka, the ones that go to church with us and have had us over for dinner the last few weeks). So I told Aunt1 and Aunt2 to let their families know. Then I sat down and ran the numbers... that's 15-18 people to feed.

Well, good luck having SD in pre-school BM! She was transferred to the "Preschool Prep" class at our church. It's supposed to be for kids who will be going to preschool *next year* (as in, she was supposed to have already been in it). They do things like working on potty training, group activities, and story times. All the nursery classes give a report at the end of the day at our church. BD2 always gets a 4 or 5 (meaning she did good or great) and SD has never gotten lower than a 3.

Don't you just love when BM not only looks bad, but looks bad in front of other people? We took SD to visit DH's grandma after church yesterday. DH's grandma... isn't fond... of BM, to say the least. When BM and DH were together he was working under his truck at Grandma's house and BM walked up to him and kicked him hard, right in front of Grandma. Grandma told her that she didn't tolerate that behavior at her house. BM left DH about a month later. Grandma visited SD in the hospital right after she was born, but hadn't seen BM since then.

BD2's godmother has a habit of stepping on my mother's and my toes. She'll try to tell us how to take care of BD2. This would be fine and dandy, if she had come to visit more than 5 times since we moved back 8 months ago, 3 of which have been in the past month. She tries to tell my mom, who lives NEXT DOOR to me and sees BD EVERYDAY what BD likes and doesn't like. My mom puts up with it ONLY because "Friend" is my friend. Otherwise, she'd probably choke her.