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Did she make it up or is it PAS?

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Submitted by AliceP on Mon, 09/08/2014 - 1:49am

We found out that back in May sd12 was told DH didn't want her to come out here to visit, that he only wanted to see SD13. She had unfriended dh on fb but he thought it was for his annoying memes, he talked to her on the phone and she never said anything, but MIL showed me the emails between her and SD12 where she said she found out DH thinks she'll cry the whole time and he would rather just have sd13.

Lucky ME I suppose

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Submitted by AliceP on Thu, 07/10/2014 - 8:01pm

Skitzo BM wanted us to take sd13 all summer and than change custody, then skitzo bm wanted all arrangments to take place after July 10th, than skitzo wanted to take them to TN to see MIL, than skitzo needed to do summer school, then skitzo dropped out anyway and still no skids.....also no calls on fathers day, no calls on his birthday a week later but sd13 did text him to ask for 40 bucks. I hate them all DH includef. I want them out of my house, my head, and , y little girls' life.

Changing custody

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Submitted by AliceP on Sun, 02/09/2014 - 1:19pm

Soooooo it's looking like we will be having SD12 move in with us, but not SD11. Anybody have a similar situation? Does Child Support get modified? BMM and DH are terrible communicators and aren't very diligent about following court orders. I really want to Have SD12 here I would be thrilled but I also want to make sure we can provide for her.

Tattoo Reminders

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Submitted by AliceP on Mon, 09/09/2013 - 12:54am

I offered DH a back rub tonight. He has a tattoo of BMs name on his left shoulder blade. I used to chalk it up as "oh he's a romantic...blah blah blah" and he wants to get it covered. But now 7 years almost 8 it just annoys the fuck out of me. I refuse to let him put my name on him as I think it is the kiss of death in a relationship. He said he wants to get all 4 girls names surrounded by prayer hand. A) thats really generic and meaningless if you aren't a latino catholic.

I don't get disengagement

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Submitted by AliceP on Sat, 09/07/2013 - 1:16am

I understand it actually; if you went in full throttle and DH wasn't pulling his weight, or you were struck down by BM. I understand that it is hard to love a child that wasn't raised by you, acts feral, and is off limits when you want nothing more than to guide them.

What I don't get is people that enter serious relationships with no intention of being part of the kids lives.

O/T I'm About to get all jerry springer!!

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Submitted by AliceP on Tue, 08/20/2013 - 12:53am

Backround: I have a neighbor, she's weird, she really helped me out when I had my first child I was unprepared for as sort of a surrogate grandma (my mom is very child like and I pretty much counted her out on this whole family thing) But this lady is maternal and intrusive in a ....intrusive way. lol. But I noticed she's a chameleon she changes who she is based on who she is around. She smokes cigarettes behind her husbands back. She started out sneaking smokes in our back yard with DH.

CHILD SUPPORT STORY

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Submitted by AliceP on Fri, 08/16/2013 - 4:09pm

So my friends dad left him when he was in 6th grade. His mom and brother were on their own. They all grew up had kids, they eventually after years and years tracked the dad down and discovered the dad had $32,000 in savings for a boat. Their mother was awarded the $32K. The boys expected to split it 3 ways. They went with out a lot as kids. The mom gave them each $2000 and kept the rest. Is that fair?

WHAT IF YOU COULD TAKE IT ALL BACK? Question for FormerAAGirl too

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Submitted by AliceP on Thu, 08/15/2013 - 10:40am

Had a surreal sci fi day dream thing. I was looking for a password reset email and it never showed up so while looking through my email folder I realized I saved every email between DH and I when we first started talking. I read through all of them starting from June 2006. I've been sort of going through a 7 year itch thing with him where everything he does annoys the hell out of me or isn't good enough.

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