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Is this a cycle?

It's been a while since I last posted and since then DH came back home on his own.. He came back 3 days after saying he wants to see his daughter (our daughter together) and I left him to it and went to the bedroom to give him space .. There he was playing with all 3 kids I can hrar him being extremely nice to them.. Its been a very long time since he treated them that way..

It's the end.. I lost SD won

After the terrible argument on Wednesday night with DH concerning SD and why I didn't tell SD happy birthday and kiss her feet etc.

Did I mention DH stormed out that night and left.. He didn't contact me and I didn't either I had no idea where he went or where he slept. Last night DH sister came and told me he sent her for his clothes and I were so mad I helped her pack every piece of clothes that belonged to him and she left with 3 garbage bags of clothes..

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Here we go again.. Some of you may have read my last blog where DH visited SD on her birthday.. What I didn't mention is what happens after each visit.

Its been 2 days since and DH has been very uneasy. Tonight I caught him whispering very softly in a corner its like he was sweet talking an outside woman. I were standing about 5 feet away from him and I couldn't hear a word but I'm seeing him whispering and speaking in a romantic way.. So I asked him who he were speaking to and he hesitated but replied my daughter and I said oh ok and walked pass him.

SD Birthday

So SD birthday was yesterday she turned 14 years.. DH went to work and came back and told me all he did was called her and spoke with her.

I asked him if that was all he planned and he replied yes I told him to carry her for ice cream and cake and spend some time with her etc even carry her to a nice restaurant for dinner but he said her mom already cooked her dinner and bought her cake and ice cream... I then replied that he should of atleast go spend an hour or two with her..

What are your intake on this????

DH had a son when he were very young his son's mom and DH had a one night stand and she became pregnant.

She told her bf at the time who decided to accept her and the baby and soon after giving birth she moved out of her parents home and started a family with her bf and the new baby DH had no contact for her..

DH moved on and created a new family got married and had DD. After several years, DS made contact with DH whilst he were still living with DD and BM..

BM felt threaten by the son and made every effort to block DS out of DH life..

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Mumsnet.com

Have anyone ever posted on mumsnet.com

I've posted there about my SD hateful behaviour and I were basically eaten alive..

They all blame me for her trauma and class me as an evil wicked stepmother for calling her put on her lies...

Hell visited me again!!!!

Hell paid me a visit again yesterday..

DH brought SD again yesterday..

SD refused to come into the house, Instead she took a chair and sat in the yard in the hot sun when I saw that I asked her to come into the house and sit she said, No !! I good right here!!

SD didn't speak to me instead she used her father to relate to me however I spoke directly to her, I asked if she wanted food she said No! I good! But eventually went to neighbour's house and ate

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