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Sometimes, it is really hard/impossible for me to feel sorry for our DHs/SOs.
And that's for a variety of reasons.
A lot of the SKs here were conceived in short term relationships where these guys did not know the BMs well, if at all. And yet they still got into bed with these women. And many of these women turn out to be psychos. Note to all people: before you get into bed with someone, get to know them!
Some of these guys then married the BMs because of the pregnancy resulting from the one night stand/short term relationship.
How often does your DH/SO See his kids?
This popped up in my mind as it seems as though it varies on this board.
Does he see them often? If so, why?
Does he not see them at all, or not often? If so, why, and what is he doing to change it?
My DH sees his kids daily except for 4 days a month when they are with BMs parents. We have custody of them.
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Elders
Poll question: do you think SMs are elders to adult sos? Even if they're 15- years older than said sks? If so, why?
I don't. Knowing myself I wouldn't think of myself as an elder for anyone fairly close in age to me.
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For those with bios from a previous relationship?
Just out of curiosity,
If you knew your kids' SM was on here venting about your bios the way we often do about our skids, how would you react to that, what would you think, and what would you do to change the situation (or try to)?
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It's kind of nice to know that celebrity blended families also deal with our problems. LeAnn Rimes and Brandi Glanville are
at it again.
Surprise, surprise 
http://gma.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/leann-rimes-brandi-glanville-feud-t...
Who do you agree with? I agree with Brandi, I'd be po-d royally if the woman my ex was cheating on me with while he was married to me called my kids her kids. Maybe I'd handle it differently, but I'd still be fuming.
Did you hear about Halle Berry, Gabriel Aubry and Olivier Martinez?
I guess the latter two got into a huge scuffle outside her home in LA.
I hope the little girl involved, Nahla, didn't have to see it (or hear it), and that Halle isn't a psycho BM.
Kids Dealing With PAS
I think many kids "know" that one parent is trying to alienate them from the other, that what is being said about the other parent isn't true, and that it is mean.
But I don't think they want to pi$$ off the bitter parent even further by trying to stick up for the other parent and/or fight the PAS.
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Do you think your minor SKs know how they're treating their SPs is wrong?
If you do, why?
Teenagers dish out crap to many adults. Maybe they "know" better, but they are allowed to get away with it, so what incentive would they have to stop?
About SKs-are you of the belief that "If they are old enough to dish it out they're old enough to take it" or
do you believe that you can let them know you're hurt forcefully but without, as some say, "stooping to their level?"
What to do when both homes have differing value sets
The blog about dyeing hair made me think about this.
DH and I are against the kids completely dyeing the kids' hair. We're ok with highlights. But BM is apparently all for it- she's never taken the kids to get this done or done it with them, but she's dyed her hair every color of the rainbow. DH says she is currently purple.
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