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Does anyone here think your skids have been sexually abused?

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Wed, 10/27/2010 - 11:35pm

Quite frankly, I come across some entries where I can't help but wonder if the kids in question were sexually abused, because I've done a ton of research on this subject, and some of these blog entries mention actions/behaviors of the kids that are also symptoms of abuse (i.e. bedwetting, sexually inappropriate behavior, etc).

Is your SKs BM on ivillage?

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 10/11/2010 - 9:10am

Do you know this for certain or suspect it.

I've been on ivillage and left because I got flamed for sticking up for a SM. I decided to see if BM was there. I didn't find anything about her there. She mostly sticks to myspace anyway.

We wonder a lot if BMs ever come here to find stuff on us. Have you ever gone to ivillage and seen posts there with very familiar stories?

OT- do you have any pets?

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Wed, 09/29/2010 - 7:49am

If so, what kind of pets?

Growing up, I had 3 Dutch rabbits and they were wonderful. They were so adorable! 2 of them lived to be 10 and the other lived to be 11. I was their main caretaker. They were so kissable and lovable. I was very attached to them.

Now I have two rescue dogs. One is a naughty, lovable chocolate lab/German Shepherd mix. He's really smart and we rescued him when he was a little pup. His name is Aslan.

Our other one is a beagle-terrier mix. I really, really love my animals. I consider them and SDs to be my kids, and I count them as people!

The Ten Commandments of Co-Parenting (feel free to add more)

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 09/20/2010 - 9:54am

http://coparenting101.org/ten-commandments-of-co-parenting/

1. Resolve conflicts without putting kids in the middle. This requires being objective about your children’s needs (and not confusing them with your own) and compromising when the situation warrants. Stick with a conflict until it’s resolved; don’t let a problem fester and then punish the other parent passive-aggressively or be difficult in unrelated situations.

PAS should be a crime.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 09/13/2010 - 9:15am

I know we've talked about it thousands of times here but I'll say it again. PAS should be a crime. It is child abuse. Any child abuser/PASinator deserves to do a stint in prison and lose custody permanently. Maybe if PASinators knew that they would face hefty jail time and losing custody, they wouldn't practice PAS.

I think PAS needs to be discussed at our national and state Capitols. I think someone from our site should run for state or national office and get PAS on the radar screen, and introduce a bill making it a crime.

Has your DH ever been called a deadbeat dad?

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Wed, 08/25/2010 - 10:14am

If so, how did he (and/or you) respond to the person calling him that?

BM used to call DH a deadbeat dad, despite his paying her $1500 a month for two kids and constantly taking her to court to enforce his visitation rights. Now that we have custody, she's not calling him names anymore, but it aggravated me.

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