At the first of November during our EOW visitation with SD11, BM sent DH a text telling him to buy SD11 a jacket because she needed one. At this time it had already gotten pretty cold in our area. DH ask SD11 if she needed a jacket and she said yes but not just any jacket she wanted a certain kind of jacket (expensive!) We do not have this kind of money. The jackets that BD5 wears are jackets that I buy at the end of the season when they are on sale. I buy them big enough so that she has it for the next year. DH responded to BM and told her to get her a jacket with cs.