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Leave the man alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by bostonstepmonster3 on Sun, 02/03/2013 - 4:28pm

How many times have I politely and calmly asked that DH's kids don't call before noon on Sundays, since it their father's only day off and a day that he likes to catch up on sleep???? They do anyway, 8am, 9am! And it's always self-absorbed crap, "Dad, question about how to fix my car". Because they want answers now! Really? You disrespect your dad enough to wake him for your selfish needs??? They don't respect him and that's obvious! I think that if your step-kids disrepect their step-parent to an evil degree, that's disrespecting their biological parent. What?

Sick in ER

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Submitted by bostonstepmonster3 on Tue, 10/16/2012 - 6:56pm

I woke this morning very dizzy, off balanced and kept walking into walls. Then I tried some work on my lap top, and everything I read and tried to write was blury and wrong. I dropped a coffee cup and broke it from losing senstaion in my hand. Mind you, yesterday, mu husband told me he wouldn't go to counseling with me last night after the blow uo on Sunday. He said no way, no how, never, and he's pretty sure he's done being willing to do anything. I stayed home and worked today since he doesn't want me there.

Divorce around corner

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Submitted by bostonstepmonster3 on Mon, 10/15/2012 - 11:33pm

To condense the last 7 years, I have 4 adult stepchildren who have zero manners and respect. I was labeled a gold digger from the before we met. I have ways been a motivated Type A person and as a single.mom of 6 years, went to University and worked 2 jobs. Met DD when my daughter was 6. Love instantly and he treated me as a queen, stopped everything for me. Now, zero acknowledge ment for the work I've put into our business, no sense of partnership on his part always the "I" language. I receive no dates, gifts, a desire to be with me on any intimate level.

Discovery of the narcissistic SSs

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Submitted by bostonstepmonster3 on Wed, 03/07/2012 - 12:37am

Have been doing much research on narcissistic behavior and also other disorders to try to put together the pieces as to why I've received the treatment I have over the years. Well, very certain the adult SS's have the classic signs of a narcissis. The SDs have their own neurosis but the hatred, lack of empathy, entitlement, glorifying their egos when they are truly ignorant, brashness, violent behavior and targeting me shows that the SS's have real issues.