After reading through DH's complete original divorce papers (BM did all of it herself and 6 years ago he signed them without even reading it!) on the back of the papers where the break down of CS was we discovered that a certain amount of that support was to be for medical IF he didn't provide medical insurance but if insurance was provided than we were to deduct that amount. Remind you SHE did all her own paperwork with a friend who worked at a public defenders office. So long story short she replied to all of our papers we filed with long letters........

SO is going on almost 3 weeks of pretty much no contact with his boys but one or two phone calls. One was SS15 asking him to put money in their account. The other was a quick convo and both times BM was listening on the other end.

I guess I just feel like my ENTIRE life is now consumed with BM's. I have emotionally accepted SS3 into my life and it's killing me thinking that he could be being treated badly by his SD and there is little we can do about it. We are in the right direction but this is a slow process. He isn't a drug user... and he isn't beating him.... (that we know of we only see him every 6 weeks) he yells alot and is severely controlling. To the point of he makes the calls. He makes the choices. And now that she has been served he is up in arms over it.

So we got SS3 for the weekend. We were pretty excited. It's been a month. When we got him it was worse than usual. He had on NO underwear..... and shoes that were TWO sizes too small AND had busted up laces that didn't even come past the second holes in his shoes. IT was AWFUL!!! I took pictures of his shoes. I am so sick of them doing this. Poor little kid. Every time we get him his clothes have this horrible stinch of being left to mold in the washer for days..... it takes me forever to get the smell out and if I don't wash his blanket it will stink up our ENTIRE house.