My fiancé and I have lived together for a year. I disengaged early on from his two sons who visit Wednesday evenings and every other weekend. Recently, my fiancé went to his sons schools and arranged for them to ride the bus to our house on Wednesdays and Fridays. He did this without consulting me beforehand. The problem is this: my fiancé doesn't leave work until 4 or 5 and the oldest is coming here at 2:30.
The first time the kid showed up I had no idea he was coming and I was in the shower and heard noises in the house.