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Childish fighting here with the dh..

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Sun, 03/07/2010 - 1:54pm

Ok another day another fight here on the homefront, what else is new right. Not sure about anyone else, but it seems that we fight over stupid stuff here. Today it's over me going to dinner at mil house, last night it was over a movie that to be honest I did not want to see. I can not for the life of me figure out why I have to go everywhere with him and why it's allways what he wants to do, and if I dont go he acts like a complete child so sometimes it's just easier to give in than to deal with the drama that I know is coming. So today I go than deal with this yet again.

All is calm on the home front here.

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Mon, 02/22/2010 - 11:58pm

Thanks so much everyone for your imput here on my situation.. Me and dh have went to a workshop for spouses here and I have learned alot from it. It has showed me that sometimes anger is displaced unto others and that sometimes that we need to work together to resolve the conflicts that is misplaced sometimes.(Ie; me and my anger towards my step-son) I admited to dh that we both went from single parents to having a family all when he came home from kuwait, and all the stress that he had there, but also the stress that I had here from dealing with his family and a new situation...

Update on needing advice

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Tue, 02/16/2010 - 5:19pm

I just totally blew up at ss15, he wanted some chips and I told him that I payed for the food in this house and he could goto grandma's house to eat since he wanted to tell her everything that went on in the house anyways. Dh said it was uncalled for, and right now I really dont give a damn.Dh stormed out and I told him to take ss with him if he was leaving. I honestly dont want to walk on egg shells everytime I do something or say something around here.

What would you do in this situation? Advice Please

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Tue, 02/16/2010 - 3:08pm

Ss 15 is a bully and I am not sure what to do about it here. This morning it all came to breaking point with him. The boys were getting ready for school, and me on the couch watching them, well ss yells out that bio son aged 5 hit him, not true, and then grabs bio by kneck and hits on head. I yelled that I was going to have him arrested if he ever layed hands on him again. Well now ss has went and told monster-in law that it was all bio's son and I was going to put him in jail for defending himself and once again she is all over my ass over him lying once again to her.

Hello all..

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Tue, 02/09/2010 - 5:40pm

Hope everyone is well tonight. We are snow bound here and fighting the effects of cabin fever here.. Wondering what everyone else does to fight this home bound boredom? As for me cleaning..

Should I or Should I not?

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Fri, 01/22/2010 - 3:41pm

I want to call child protective on dbm, she is yet again letting strange men come around ss and her bio, without care of their background. She has once again put the "man in her life, or "the flavor of the month" come before ss.. She has let down ss once again by saying that she will take him this weekend, but only to come back with it is only for tonight only as "flavor of the month comes first."I know what I have said in the past about not careing about what dh does, but I am sorry for that...

Tired of dh playing favorite with ss

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Tue, 01/12/2010 - 6:57pm

Tonight I am so pissed off. Dh has been playing favorite with ss and tonight it came to a head here at our house. Bs asked ss for help with a game, well ss did not help bio with the game he just took it over and refused to give it back. Well dh did not say a dang thing about it, and when I mentioned that ss was refusing to give back game he took up for him and said well he asked for help.. Enough is enough here... I told dh that was the straw that broke the camels back and from now on he can take care of his own damn son and I would take care of mine.

Bm is going to be so pissed. And I am happy,,,

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Sun, 01/10/2010 - 4:25pm

My dh finally filled out paperwork on bm for child support that she owes him. We got a paper the other day stating that she is in default and will be taken to court to recover what she owes or she will goto jail. I know this sounds aweful, but I hope she does not pay and goes to jail... I am so happy today I want to shout.. I cant wait for her to call dh and say something about it to him..Finally she is getting hers...

Someone got a valium here. Uggg...

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Mon, 01/04/2010 - 5:39pm

O.k I need a valium or a really stiff drink at this end tonight and really need to vent here. Picked up ss15 today, and it has been nothing but hell here since he got back.. Tried to talk to him while he was playing a game and yelled like 3 times to tell him something, and he completly ignored me here. I know it has something to do with dbm on his visit. On the way home dbm called and i overheard the conversation it went like this, (her to ss)-"now remember what I told you to do when it comes to sm, you dont have to do a thing she says here" (ss to her)-" O.k mom, I will..

Break is allmost over with. Dreading it..

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Sat, 01/02/2010 - 6:30pm

Ss15 has been at bio for the past 10 days and about to come home. I am so dreading the attitude that I know is coming after this visit. It's not bad enough that she fills his head with unrealistic things that she is going to do for him, but also the nonsense that he can live with her at anytime he wants. If you have read my blog before have been pissed off at bio many times, and do not know where she even gets off telling ss that he can live with her when she will call about her daughter when she can to visit us, but not even bother at all to call ss.

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