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What goes up must come down...

I'm one of those people that just think she's so smart.

But everytime I get high and mighty and think I've got BM pegged, she cycles and reminds me that I am perfectly INcapable of predicting her behavior.

SD11 had back to school night last night and I thought for sure BM would skip it. SD11 was with us and her pattern is that when she has a BF, she conveniently skips these types of things. So I prepared DH to either handle it on his own or expect her to show up with her dipshit boyfriend even though DH explicitly requested that he not come.

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The Devil doesn't wear Prada...

She wears Target-brand flip flops...at least that's what BM was wearing the last time I saw her.

BM went back to the BF who beat her up.

SD11 called her dad last Thursday and begged him to come pick her up. They had gone over to the BF's house and SD absolutely did not want to be there. So DH did. BM actually let him.

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Birthday Surprises

My youngest SD turned 6 today.

We're taking her out for dinner tonight and she told her Daddy that she wants to go to the place with the Owl in the name.

"You know Daddy...your FAVORITE restaurant."

Owl in the name??????

Ohhhhh, little missy wants to go to Hooters for some chicken wings.

She cracks me up. Can't wait 'til she tells mommy where she's going for her birthday dinner.

Life's Patterns

Pardon me for my temper tantrum yesterday. I regress sometimes. I just don't have the capability at times to embrace BM's eccentricities in all their glory. I hold myself and those around me to a certain standard. But when it comes to BM, I can not. That was my fault for doing so.

Plain and Simple

BM is worthless. Plain and simple.

I am so unbelievably sick and tired of having her as a constant in my life. She is a pathetic waste of time and space. Any benefit of the doubt I have extended to her, I humbly retract as of this very moment.

She's as worthless as she is typical in all that she does.

I'm droopy blue...

Please forgive me.

You are my friends and I just wanted to share my sadness with you today.

A friend of mine has had the worst happen to him. His 14yo daughter took her life on Friday and as I held him with nothing to say, all he kept repeating to me through his helpless, neverending tears was...."My baby is gone."

My heart is broken like I don't think it's ever been broken before. I have no explanation and no wise words for my children who can not begin to fathom this loss.

He gets it.

DH FINALLY gets it.

He came home from SD11's softball game last night and asked me 'Do you ever have those days with your ex that you just don't want to even talk to them?'

Mediation.

Thank you ladies for your wonderful feedback on my previous post about my court date with my BS12's biodad. For those of you who have never bored yourself with my little personal tale of woe...see my blog post named "My poor little buddy..."

So, I'm hoping for MORE feedback. I never attended DH's mediation and never had to go thru mediation before.

I received a letter in the mail from the Office of Dispute Resolution (Mediation Office) and it stated what MamaSita suggested that I do anyways. Spell out my issues and what I want resolved.

Court today

SO I just back from court. It was a whole lot of nothing. We are set to go to mediation on the 21st of August.

The Devil showed up in a ponytail and cheap slacks. He looked like he belonged in criminal court. I was actually embarassed.

The temporary order is still in effect naming me as the sole custodian of my BS12.

He is leaving the country again on Tuesday and can phone in to mediation.

Tommorrow...

Friday the 11th. Just another day, right?

I have been dreading this day for a month now. All started when I got an e-mail from my lawyer informing me that my son's biodad was contesting my final orders hearing. It's surreal how calm I am with it hours away. Maybe because there are answers right around the corner for me and the build up to the event will finally be at an end.

I'm taking the day off. Just because my mind will be somewhere else and I just don't feel like working. My boss understands. No questions asked.

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